It is a fact of life that when middle east penpals are in love, they tend to overlook each other's faults. Once they
are married and they have to face life together, they begin to see each other's faults. It is not unusual for either Arab
mail order brides at this point to be so distressed with the other that each is ready to vote the other off the Island permanently. Hold
off on that thought. This too shall pass seriously. But the shock of it often hits love match's deeper than arranged
marriages. Love matches expect happily ever after. Arranged matches know they are in for some work. In this
sense arranged matches hold the upper hand. Even more than parenting, arab marriage is the hardest job you will ever
love. Arab penpals possesses weaknesses and strengths. When we approach marriage in a careful, objective manner, we enter
with open eyes and open hearts. When our approach based solely upon limeracy, we set ourselves up for regret. Within Western
societies, love unites most arab ladies, yet as many as 50% end in divorce with many lasting less than two years. Why
two years? Because two years is the amount of time it takes to successfully re navigate the first four stages of middle east
marriage infatuation, disillusion, negotiation, acceptance. When a dynamic in the relationship changes, such as marriage,
a death or child, the couple re enters this cycle. The amount of time it takes to get through it depends upon the level
of communication, trust and emotional maturity of both.
In Islamic societies, as well as other biblically based societies, when the ideas of marriage, that it is between the
middle east mail order brides and God. As a covenant with God, it is forever and divorce is not an option. When these
foundations are agreed to and respected by both parties, how the middle east ladies became married, whether via arrangement
or a love match is irrelevant. When the faith is central and the commitment to that covenant central, divorce rarely
follows. That marriage is based upon a union before God and its survival is a tribute to middle east wives. This is
the wisdom of the Islamic approach and it is shared by all faiths of The Book. In the end, how you meet is irrelevant.
How you treat arab wives once wed, this is how you show honor to both your faith and God.